Christmas
is a time for forgiveness and Sunday is also a good time to do the same. For a
long time, Matilah Singapura has been making personal attacks at me, calling me
all kinds of names and branding me as racist, bigot, and whatever negative
words he could find in his vocabulary. I, being a better person, simply ignored
him. But I noticed several anonymous have been attacking him like a scoundrel
and calling him all the base things they could to make him know that he is indeed
a scum of society, a shameful person that is so low down that a dog would be a
saint in his company.
Let’s
forgive him for his waywardness. Let’s try to understand him. He is indeed a
very miserable person if you know what he had gone through. I am very sure that
he did not go and smell his mother though he has been describing how smelly is
her cxxx. I shan’t use the words that he used. Did I get the word correctly? I
often skip what he wrote. Or did he used something like c… b.. to describe his
mother?  I can even swear that he is
innocent of the acts that he claimed to do. I believe inside him he is a good
boy.
But where
did he get the idea that his mother is smelly if he did not do it? My
conclusion is that it must be his father that told him, after all his father
must be the only one that is intimate with his mother. But again, for him to
come here and scold his mother, insult his mother and said those not very nice
things are a reflection that he is really angry with his mother. How can he be
so angry really beats me?  What has his
mother done to make him so angry to the point of hate? Has his mother been
naughty or doing bad things that he has to condemn her, even saying out loud
that he came out from her …., you know what. So embarrassing to even mention
it.  My apologies.
See, try to
understand him and forgive him. He is angry maybe for some other reasons. He
might have thought he made a damn clever decision to migrate to Australia 
But not to
worry for him. It is very lucky for him that he did not sell his HDB flat when
he left and still can collect some rent to get by.  Luckily it is a HDB flat and all his failed
marriages did not end up with him having to sell his flat and split with his ex
spouses. Then he would have nothing to live on.
Poor chap.
Please be kind to him. Please don’t scold him now that you know what he had
gone through in life. And if he comes back to claim that he is very successful
and scrounging from his rich friends, just give him a listening ear. Don’t run
him down or expose his failures. He will go down in depression.
Thank you for
your understanding and for showing your kindness to Matilah Singapura. 
Amen.
