Commentary: The race to stack internships is hurting young people
The push to take up internships at a young age pressures teens into working before they even know themselves, says CNA's Izza Haziqah.When I replied, “Just one, in university,” his eyes widened.
This kind of pressure is increasingly common among young people in Singapore amid anxieties about employability. CNA
Our young are so poor things. They need more sayang sayang for being forced to work at such tender age. Why pushed them so hard? Why not let them enjoy their lives, enjoy K pops, J pops, more clubbings, more vapings?
A few decades ago there was a rugged society campaign. Now it is lost in the memories of the senior citizens. In the 1950s, things were quite different. Everyday, mothers, grandmothers and children as young as 6 or 7 years would go out in tow, like going for a picnic, but actually stomping into factories to sieve coffee beans. The whole family would sit around a mat and the mothers or grandmothers would cart a bag of coffee beans to be sorted out. Every member of the family would be busy picking out the spoilt beans, debris from the piles of coffee beans. When fully sorted out, the family would be paid a dollar or two for each bag of clean and good beans. That was life in the 1950s.
Children that did not do well in primary schools, or did not like studies were not a problem. The parents would send them to the kopitiams to serve kopis to feed themselves, a big relief to the family. And some would end up carrying a piece of bamboo and stick, walking around the kampong, hitting the bamboo, tok tik tok, tok tik tok, in search of customers to buy a bowl of noodles. They will carry the bowl of noodles to the customers in their homes, for 20c a bowl. The young boys, probably pre teens or in their early teens, would get a few dollars a month for their effort or jobs. No body complained about child labour and life being tough for the young boys.
For those that were more able, finishing Senior Cambridge was the final hurdle to start job hunting to supplement the family's income. At 16 or 17, many would take on the burden to upkeep the family and looking after their younger siblings. What internship? Getting a job was like striking lottery.
The plight of today's young, to be forced into internship, is a luxury that pioneering generation Singaporeans did not have and would not complain about. To the pioneering generations, getting a job, any job, after Senior Cambridge, ie O level, was a big achievement, a big step in life to shoulder more responsibilities.
The strawberry generation never had it so good. Are they complaining or are their parents complaining that life is too harsh for them?
4 comments:
Good morning Mr RB and All
Yes you are Right! The Now Demolished Corner Istean and the Opposite Slum Havelock Area with a Zinc Flatted Factory's was the coffee beans sorting Factory with my mother and sisters.
Picking those spoilt ones from the good ones until now most of our generation slightly hunched and most not more than 5 feet or a bit taller.
Wow that time Senior Cambridge atas already if possible government services as "Cheng Hoo Lans" or "Iron ricebowls"
Lucky our time under Dr Goh Keng Swee's policy of the first few batches Compulsory Active Service Men aka CAS men as we were called then were given "pai roti" aka priority in given government services posts according to your qualifications.
Then second privilege choose your HDB flats in any Estaes when you are married.
Also can exchange with your own Comrades in the same estate of your preferences of which units you preferred.
Those were the days my friends!
Life for the young in Singapore is good in terms of plenty to eat and everything to possess and choose from. But, as an oldy, I think much has been lost in terms of what many are saying about the joys of childhood being lost in exchange for blind faith in progressing.
Even as an oldy with grown up children and grandchildren, I think the pressure of an education for kids and a result-oriented mindset is taking a heavy toll, which really puts many younger people from getting married and having children. Having gone through the system, they knew the price to be paid by their kids if they decide to have them.
Education apart, parents have to think of what their kids will face in a society when owning a home takes a whole life working for it. In the end, it is still empty handed we come, empty handed we go. If I were to go all over again, I think in today's situation, I would also not try to have kids.
Hi Anon 3.21
Just think of the hassles now of having children.
From child care to the kindergarten and then to primary schools where the parents had to do their unpleasant things just for the sake of getting their children thru choices of their own and get penalised and even jailed for them.
Then the exams wow PSLE. Out time already chiak lat.
Have to lie up for passes for the children to listen to some lecturers or tutors of how to do well in the Imperial Exams.
Went to several Big.Bookshops and other stationery ships to get Ten Years Series for them to mark and study.
Okay managed to advance to Secondary Schools so what's!
NOT really the Elites ones where the Creams of our Connected Elites are all in league to take care of their own.
What's nonsense Alumni and preferences for their own!
Just like the Castes System of India.
They Brahmins the rest Dailits.
Then okay if children capable enough to further to Polys and Unis so what!
What's meritocratic based on the capables! BS it's Connections!
Many capable ones still doing menial jobs due to their Dailts class.
Those lower incomes ones the school transport fares already can kill you.
Have to eat a packet of $3.00 nasi lemak with a piece of ikan kuning for the sake of their children.
For drink just tap water.
When you lived up to the Seventies now you see the whole wide world of BS equality and fairness.
That's why so many Smart ones now preferred to be singles than look for unnecessary troubles and problems.
Nowadays young grandparents don't want to take care of their own grandchildren unlike our forefathers and mothers time.
Now too much electrocuted, oops Educated and had lifes to enjoy on their own Many had enough monies as bled by the young generation and helped by the Government in having their meagre dirt cheap properties been sold by the millions and brought by the NEW POOR generation
Also if married if you are lucky gave Good and understanding in laws.
If have those like Doatrd Trump and their alike you are dead meats
Endless quarrels and tortures.
That's why my two children are SINGLE to my relief
Also aiya have to deal with difficult in laws if ready have them
Die lah!
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