When Japan invaded China and captured most of the big cities, massacring Chinese to satisfy their savage nature, they arrogantly told the Chinese that this was the result of being weak. A weak China invited the strong to invade and to rule China. The fault was not the aggressive nature of the invaders, but the weak and hapless Chinese.
Did China learn from this painful experience, an ancient civilisation ten times bigger than Japan but being whipped like a stray dog with tails between its legs, with the heads of its people being chopped off for the amusement of the barbaric Japanese soldiers, and unable to fight back. China was a living hell for the Chinese during the Japanese Occupation. Robbed of everything of value, even the dignity and decency of being Chinese. They became the pariahs in their homeland, in the world.
The Chinese would not forget these dark days of their history and worked extremely hard, with many of their brightest, the best scientists and engineers, chosing to return to their motherland to rebuild their country sacrificing the lure of fortune and fame in foreign lands. When the tide changed, when opportunity opened its door, the Chinese were in a great hurry to catch up with the rest of the world. They are now at the top vying to be the number one super power, competing directly with the Americans. But one thing they still have not learnt. Or is it due to Confucius philosophy of being humble and respectful of the weak, that they refused to act like a super power? They allowed little silly countries to spit at them, to climb over their heads, to taunt them, to even seize Chinese lands and islands and still refraining from putting their feet down and tell the scoundrels to get lost.
When China was weak, it was bullied and unable to fight back. When China was working hard to find its way back, it has no choice but to keep its head low, just keep working, ignore the stares and the spits and the insults. Work hard to be rich and strong, to be able to defend themselves. During this period, Deng Xiaoping's famous advice, keep a low profile, do not get into trouble, avoid trouble, were the mantras of the time.
When China is finally rich and strong, many still refuse to accept their new status and wanted to continue to live the way Deng told them. They could not understand that time has changed, the situation has changed. They were angry when Xi Jinping came out with the bold policy of acting as a big and respectable nation state and reclaim whatever belongs to China, particularly the South China Sea. They lack the confidence to be big powers, still afraid and wanting to put their heads down and mine their own business. Still wanting to be Ah Qs.
It is this kind of thinking in the Chinese leadership that gives the world the impression that China may be big and strong, but can still be kicked around by little asses? Look at America, or even Israel, is there any silly country that dares to fool around or mess with them? They know that doing so would get them a black eye immediately. Even second rate third world power like India would carry a big clout to whack its neighbours if they mess around with India's interest. India even thinks it can mess around with China. Let alone little silly countries in Asean, taunting and throwing punches at China and thinking they can get away, all because China would not hit back, would not dare to hit back, or because of its antiquated beliefs that kindness would earn respect.
China forgets that the devils and snakes would always be devils and snakes. Being kind to devils and snakes would only end up being attacked by the devils and bitten by the snakes. China is now a super power, as powerful as the USA. If it does not behave as one, act as one, it would be treated like a dumb overgrown village fool. No one is going to respect a village fool.
China has to act and behave like a super power to be respected if not feared. To the devils and snakes, they would never like China or want to be friends with China. China must not harbour any illusion that the snakes and devils would love them one day. There is only one way to deal with devils and snakes. That is to kick their asses when they misbehaved. Only then would they behave and stay away from irritating and trying to be funny with China. Let them fear China and avoid China. Only then would China enjoy some peace and respectability in the world as a big power. If China insists to continue to tie its hands behind its back, then there will be endless troubles in the South China Sea, Taiwan, Tibet and the border with India.
There are times when might is right and China must use its might to protect its rights. Unless China enjoys or tolerates little pricks trying to seize its islands in the South China Sea, or traitors working with foreign powers to bring down China.
Weakness invites aggression and trouble. A super power that behaves as weak would also invites aggression and trouble even from little pricks. Wake up China and stop the aggression and mischievous behaviours of the aggressors, big and small. Failing to act against aggression and mischief is a sign of weakness.
Would China want to be weak forever, to be seen as weak forever, and to forever invite aggression? When little silly states think it is ok to taunt and attack China, it is the fault of China as a failed super power, not the fault of little silly states. When Japan still thinks it can invade and attack China, it is the fault of China, not Japan...because China ask for it. This applies to what the Americans are doing in Taiwan. China's weakness is inviting trouble and the independence of Taiwan. It emboldens the trouble making Americans.
How strong or how weak is China depends on its willingness to act. If it is afraid to act, all the massive military weapons it possesses mean nothing. Afraid to act is weakness.
The real world respect only might. Believing and practicing virtues and righteousness in the real world are meant for the fools. Having said this, China should not behave like gangsters and terrorists in the world stage like the rogue Americans and the West that are hated everywhere in the world.